why is love so vague? so confusing? so abstract? why can't we know what we feel is love unless we convince ourselves of it? there is the dilemma. am i in love because i feel something? or maybe the mind dictates the adjective? and moreso, are the arguments all valid? is the friendship we have enough to go on? you could have shown something that made me stop and think or anything you did would still be misconstrued.
questions to ask when you think you're falling in love:
- love? that fast?
- is love about measuring heartbeats?
- are you really feeling something, or are you just looking for an escape?
- is it your mind or your heart doing the talking?
- are you feeling this way because of something the other person did for you? would you feel the same if that person had nothing at all to do with you?
- corollary: if the other person would react unfavorably, would you still feel the same?
